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I know there are some brothers and sisters out there who wanted to be with someone but ended up with someone else. I know how you feel
deep inside. So many of us are afraid to be alone and silent because that’s when the disturbing thoughts come:
resentment over the way someone treated us, regret over a lost love, shame over things we’ve done in the past, anxiety about the future. Believe me, I know exactly what
that’s like. It’s okay to feel those things. In fact we need to feel those things, to deal with them and confront them. When
those feelings come we can turn to Allah and say, “Ya Allah, I have made mistakes, forgive me. I am lost, please guide me. I am worried, help me.” Let the tears come. Weep before
Allah. Those tears are precious to Him. Allah, the Exalted, says:
“And they fall down on their faces weeping and it increases their humility.” (17:109)
It is possible to keep love for
someone in one’s heart even though the situation did not work out. But you have to keep that love in a special place and not let it affect your present life. In fact, it is true to say that we don’t have much control over our feelings of love and they
inhabit our heart whether we like it or not. You now have to face your life with courage and compassion and living a double life will only lead you to a disaster. If it is not possible
that you can be together in a proper way, then you really have to let go. However, we do have control over how
we respond to these feelings and how we deal with them. The pain will subside and you both will move on and if, in the future, you are meant to be together nothing can stop it.
Umar Ibn Al-Khattab(ra) said: "If
something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come your way, but if it is by destiny, from you it can not flee."
So my dear brothers and sisters, don't be disappointed that someone left you. Come to Allah and rather thank Him that He saved you from
falling in a wrong relationship. Pray to Him and ask from Him; you will never be disappointed and abandoned. Pray to Allah sincerely for only He is capable of replacing you with a better husband or wife.
May Allah soothe your bruised hearts and may his remembrance comfort
you and May he (swt) bless you with someone who deserves a precious pearl like you
ameen summa ameen
All the best.. xxx

Proud Muslimah

(Texten är från en Facebook sidan "inspirational Islamic quotes from the holy Quran")

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